2010-12-31

First Date Do's and Do Not's when dating Thailand women.

Here are some tips to avoid the most common mistakes that are made and to make a good impression with your Thailand date in Bangkok, Thailand.

Do this:

  1. Be on time with your Thailand date.
    Being late will either make a bad impression or even worse, your date might not hang around for you to turn up.
  2. Look Good in Bangkok.
    For men - Check whether fingernails are clean, hair neat, clothes ironed, shoes polished, and any odors under control (including breath).

    For Thailand women - Don't overdo the make-up or perfume! In most cases, a little goes a long way.
  3. Choose the right place for your date in Thailand.
    Don't go to the movies, the theatre, or a concert on your first date - you want to be able to talk and get to know this person. Also, you will make a longer lasting impression if you are imaginative and take your Thailand date somewhere unique. If you take a person to a fast food place you will not score good points for ingenuity.
  4. Laugh at their jokes.
    Even if you have heard the joke 100 times or more (or it just isn't funny at all), laugh. Laughing along with your Thailand date will make your date feel you are interested in him/her.
  5. Keep the conversation alive.
    The worse thing you can do is turn up for a date with someone then sit there all night with nothing to say or ask! Have something to talk about - read a newspaper or magazine of general interest. Try to find common things you both share.
  6. Take an interest in your Thailand date.
    Listen to your date when he/she is talking. Be interested in what your date has to say and show how interested you are by asking questions about what your date is talking about. Try turning your date'swords or phrases into a question, such as "You grew up in Idaho? What was that like?".
  7. Highlight mutual interests.
    Discovering that someone you're attracted to likes the same things you do can be exciting. You have an instant common bond, a little bit of emotionally validating Velcro, that may help a relationship "stick." So when you learn about your shared interests, speak up instead of just keeping them to yourself.
  8. Be confident with your Thailand lady.
    Remind yourself that you're not nervous, you’re just excited. Calm confidence is very appealing!
  9. Be yourself.
    You won’t fool anyone by pretending to be someone you are not.
  10. Have fun!
    After all, that’s the idea of the first date.

Do NOT do this:

  1. Be late with your future Thailand bride.
    There is a saying that "you never get a second chance to make a good first impression". If you are late then this will make your date think of you as lazy, having lack of initiative, or not putting an importance on the evening.
  2. Talk about yourself all night.
    Never talk too much, let the other person say some words.
  3. Talk with your mouth full.
  4. Eat with your mouth open.
  5. Order for your date.
  6. Ask too many personal questions
    This is your first date and your date may not want to reveal too much about himself/herself just yet.
  7. Pretend to be someone you are not.
    It's important to be yourself as you don't want other people to settle for anything different. Tell it like it is. For instance, if you are shy, an obvious strategy is to say, "Okay, I confess. I'm shy, " to help your date better understand your reactions and relieve your stress level. The typical response is often "So am I" or "You don't seem shy".
  8. Talk about past relationships with other Thailand ladies.
    Don’t ever bring up your past relationships in the conversation. Nobody wants to hear you grumble about your ex and how bad or good he/she were.
  9. Get drunk
    Be careful with drinking since you don’t want to put yourself at risk of unwanted advances and moreover you don’t want to make a total fool of yourself. Remember that alcohol affects your judgment and lessens your inhibitions.



Link : http://thailandwomen.org/first-date-dos-and-do-nots.htm

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